Men are certainly uncomplicated.. And not to mention, predictable. Maybe that's why its so easy for some women to make them dance to their tunes. Men (at my age, at least) are not looking for commitment. So they set their standards accordingly- she should be a sex bomb; good boobs, nice legs, a full mouth; anything that can fire their sexual desires. But they do not take into consideration a very important asset; that sets us poles apart from them- our Brains... Because all our plans, all our desires, all ours motives are all there! In the head! Unfortunately, some ignorant men would still like to believe that a woman is extremely emotional, and all her decisions are masterminded by the heart. The fact, that we have a fully functional brain, is of little or no interest to them. Now, most of the times, a lustful, sex driven man would overlook this very important asset and enjoy the physical aspect of a relationship, until one day, he realizes that he has fallen in love with this bombshell... (or so he thinks!) The bombshell, on the other hand, is completely casual about him, and drops him like a rock once she realizes that she can't handle a man harboring feelings of love for her.. Suddenly, even the sex is not as satisfying as it used to be.. So, only one solution can be worked out- A walk out!!! She walks out on the man and moves onto victim no. 2!
In the case above, I'm referring to a particular woman prototype- the type of girl, who is extremely confident about her sex appeal, and uses it to her advantage. Don't get me wrong! I don't have anything against this prototype. I, in fact, grudgingly admire her. The fact that she is sexy and manipulative is not what i envy- But it is that trait in her, which makes it so easy for her to turn down a man who is in "love" with her, is what makes me respect her. Earlier, it was a man's prerogative to break a woman's heart with callous ease; why should men be offended today, when they are at the receiving end of a woman's indifference?? Especially, when their sole basis for choosing a partner was just sexual attraction? I mean, stop complaining that a woman broke your heart! You let yourself get tricked into a heartbreak! Why do you have movies like "pyaar ka punchnama" today?? To warn you against this prototype! And then these very men try to insinuate, that women lack brain power! How hypocritical!
Prototype no 2 is the one i belong to. We have the sex appeal, we have the brains and the wit to drive a man crazy out of his mind. BUT, being temperamental and eccentric, we turn the sexy side only when we WANT to. We would judge a man, ascertain first whether he is NOT a male chauvinist pig, and only then enter into a healthy conversation. We also, don't have any qualms about being rude to the opposite sex if they behave like pompous brats. It is this prototype that men usually avoid. We may or may not be physically attractive, but a sharp tongue and mind is what makes our prototype unconventional (To men). We are not shy of expressing our views before anyone, and enter a charged debate without turning so much as an eyelash. Yet, we are the faithful kind, IF in a relationship, and believe in total commitment. Total commitment, translates into marriage, so we don't really hold too much stock with frivolous 'boyfriend- girlfriend' relationships. In short, we are much too mature for our age, and it is exactly this that men are afraid of! A woman in control of herself, and an intelligent woman at that, is the last thing they'd want! They would rather forge temporary alliances with Prototype 1. and have their asses kicked!
There are several emerging prototypes within women- A recent sex survey by the Times of India reveals, that slowly but surely, the Indian woman is taking pride in her assertiveness and emerging as a powerful force to reckon with. Her autonomy and openness to discuss sex is an indicator of progressive times, at least where women are concerned!
So Mr Prude, wake up to the Modern woman, and respect the fact that we can use our brains as effectively as our hearts! Irrespective of our prototype. ;)
In the case above, I'm referring to a particular woman prototype- the type of girl, who is extremely confident about her sex appeal, and uses it to her advantage. Don't get me wrong! I don't have anything against this prototype. I, in fact, grudgingly admire her. The fact that she is sexy and manipulative is not what i envy- But it is that trait in her, which makes it so easy for her to turn down a man who is in "love" with her, is what makes me respect her. Earlier, it was a man's prerogative to break a woman's heart with callous ease; why should men be offended today, when they are at the receiving end of a woman's indifference?? Especially, when their sole basis for choosing a partner was just sexual attraction? I mean, stop complaining that a woman broke your heart! You let yourself get tricked into a heartbreak! Why do you have movies like "pyaar ka punchnama" today?? To warn you against this prototype! And then these very men try to insinuate, that women lack brain power! How hypocritical!
Prototype no 2 is the one i belong to. We have the sex appeal, we have the brains and the wit to drive a man crazy out of his mind. BUT, being temperamental and eccentric, we turn the sexy side only when we WANT to. We would judge a man, ascertain first whether he is NOT a male chauvinist pig, and only then enter into a healthy conversation. We also, don't have any qualms about being rude to the opposite sex if they behave like pompous brats. It is this prototype that men usually avoid. We may or may not be physically attractive, but a sharp tongue and mind is what makes our prototype unconventional (To men). We are not shy of expressing our views before anyone, and enter a charged debate without turning so much as an eyelash. Yet, we are the faithful kind, IF in a relationship, and believe in total commitment. Total commitment, translates into marriage, so we don't really hold too much stock with frivolous 'boyfriend- girlfriend' relationships. In short, we are much too mature for our age, and it is exactly this that men are afraid of! A woman in control of herself, and an intelligent woman at that, is the last thing they'd want! They would rather forge temporary alliances with Prototype 1. and have their asses kicked!
There are several emerging prototypes within women- A recent sex survey by the Times of India reveals, that slowly but surely, the Indian woman is taking pride in her assertiveness and emerging as a powerful force to reckon with. Her autonomy and openness to discuss sex is an indicator of progressive times, at least where women are concerned!
So Mr Prude, wake up to the Modern woman, and respect the fact that we can use our brains as effectively as our hearts! Irrespective of our prototype. ;)
